Breaking the Circle for Leaders

EP08 Catching Thieves Was Never the Point

• Jon • Season 1 • Episode 8

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I once took over a restaurant for a colleague who was going on maternity leave. Lunchtimes were properly busy. Tables full, buffet orders going out one after another. It looked like a place making decent money.

The system didn't agree. I'd look at the tables actually being served, then look at what was logged, and the two didn't match.

It took a few days of watching before the pattern showed itself. Two people, one buffet ticket, cash pocketed on the difference. Once I saw it, I started seeing it everywhere the numbers didn't quite add up.

I had a decision to make. I could stand up and start naming names, which would have been straight but not fair, because I didn't actually know who yet, and some of that team were working hard for nothing. So I told them, honestly, that I knew something wasn't right, without pointing at anyone. Then I tightened the procedures.

The numbers turned around within weeks. But that was never really the story. The reason I dealt with it wasn't to catch anyone, it was for the two or three people on that team who were doing the job properly and carrying the weight of everyone who wasn't.

In this episode I talk about the interpretation gap, why the mismatch between what you can see and what you're being told shows up in more places than theft, and what to actually do about it once you notice one.

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Jon Manning is the author of Emotional Intelligence Unleashed. Thirty years on the shop floor, not a textbook.